Timing & Alignment: The Fullness of Time

If you can’t tell, I’m still in this flow on the Timing of God.  I find it quite fascinating because even though we intellectually know that God is omnipotent, omniscient and omnipresent, we still mistrust His timing in our lives.

As a result we get distracted and derailed into misaligned connections, situations and relationships.  We get caught up in relationships and situations that are far from God’s best because we made decisions rooted in fear, desperation, sensuality, brokenness, and emotions.

It’s all about timing, timing and timing.  Let’s take a moment and look at these aspects of time and learn how to better appreciate and trust God with our lives so that we do not get out of alignment, run ahead of God, make bigger messes, delays and/or distractions.

Let’s learn to discern our times and seasons so that when the right time comes, we are ready for the next level, the new relationship, the new business, ministry or opportunity.

Let’s develop and deepen personal self-esteem and personal wholeness so that when the time comes, we are truly ready.

Timing & Aligning

There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven. Eccl 3:1 AMP

I heard this quote from Shannon Evette – “No more hustling – only aligning.” If align with God’s time, there is no need to hustle hard for a relationship, a connection, a business opportunity, personal/spiritual growth, your ordained purpose or anything else.  Hustle is defined as “to move hurriedly or unceremoniously in a specified direction” or to “obtain by forceful action or persuasion” whereas align is defined as to be “arranged in proper position or in a line.”  Even if it seems to be slow – remember slow growth is still growth. Slow movement is still moving. I’d rather be slow and in God’s flow, than hustling and frustrated.  Misaligned connections, situations and relationships often occur when we get in a hurry trying to hustle. Get in alignment with God. Get in position. Get in sync with His timing and there will be fruitfulness and flow. #Timing #Seasons #Alignment #Purpose #HustleIsOutdated

Your Times Are In His Hands

My times are in your hands…Ps. 31:15

Our lives are in His hands.  Whenever we try to force a particular outcome in our flesh or ego — when we attempt take our times out of His hands and into our own there will be frustration, fretting and friction.  It feels like striving and fighting.  When we keep our times in His hands, there is an anointing of ease – but it’s NOT easy — you will feel the pressure, there will be effort, there will be work, you wil feel fear, there may be some struggle, but there is a distinct ease and flow that comes along – a certain grace, if you will, for the task at hand.  Remember to keep your times in His Hands today and not take matters into your own.  #InHisHands #MyTimes #Flow #Season #Timing

To have a heart of wisdom, number your days.

So teach us to number our days, that we may get us a heart of wisdom. Ps 90:12

Wisdom begins with the reverential fear of God (Prov. 9:10).  Yet we see above that another aspect of wisdom comes when we accurately discern and wisely utilize our time here on earth. Every time we dwell in the past or worry about the future, we are not wisely stewarding the present moment.  Our purpose is in the NOW.  Energy spent in negative rumination over what happened in the past and in negative rumination over a future fear is time lost when it comes to purpose.  God is a very PRESENT help (Ps 46:10) and behold NOW is the accepted time and day of salvation (2 Cor. 6:2).  I encourage you to let go of every weight of comparison, competition and distraction that so easily besets you and forget those things that lie behind today!  Stay in the moment and stay present. Your purpose and your help comes in the present moment #Wisdom #Present #Now #Timing #Season #Flow #LetGoOfThePast

You are here for such a time as this. Esther 4:14

“We are not in this world in this time and season by chance. Every detour and situation in our lives have converged into this very moment. We have come to the kingdom of God for such a time as this.  We were put here to prosper.  We were put here to display the glory of His kingdom in the earth…He has designed you to influence PEOPLE and SYSTEMS for His glory…” – by @michellemcclain52 in The Esther Anointing.  Therefore, not one tear of pain is ever wasted.   It’s about #Purpose #Destiny

The Fullness of Time.

There comes a certain tipping point or threshold in your life when suddenly prayers and promises begin to manifest.  A certain season where everything coalesces and comes together quite suddenly.  All things start lining up quickly. Things begin to accelerate and take off expediently. What is this season called? — It’s called a Due Season (Gal 6:9).  Your due season will come in the Fullness of Time (Gal 4:4).  It happens when we have endured patiently, stayed in alignment and in wisdom, and positioned ourselves to receive.  The reality is that God already had the answer. He was waiting for us to become whole enough to receive it.  The question then becomes what are you doing NOW to develop and deepen yourself to receive the answer when it shows up?  #Fullness #whole #Time #InDueSeason

Remember, His timing is impeccable.  Trust it. In the meantime, the in between time, you have the opportunity to prepare, to deepen, to develop and and to grow.  Get Ready and Stay Ready!

Here is a little free gift for you here – http://www.tonikabreeden.com/download/get-out-of-that-dead-end-relationship-now-ch-1-3/ – the first three chapters of my book , Get out of that Dead-End Relationship NOW! In this book, I got caught up in a bad relationship because I was broken, emotional and wanted to be married badly. It was out of alignment and God’s timing because I was not healed from my divorce (but I thought I was).

Love,

Tonika

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He Makes Everything Beautiful In It’s Time

As I sit here and contemplate my life for the first and second quarter thus far of 2018, I am amazed.  Let me share a bit of my recent testimony that has quietly unfolded over the past 5 months.

On 1/1/18, I dragged out my old crooked whiteboard.  I found some green and blue markers and I began to write out my intentions and goals for this year, after having prayed, hand written and typed them out.

I knew I needed something to look at — a reminder on a daily basis of my goals in each area of my life to stay on track.

On goal in particular, was to type up a list of all of the things that needed repairing in my home.  I felt led to do this, in spite of feeling quite foolish because I did not have the funds for all of these repairs. This home was purchased five months after my divorce was final – 13 years ago.

Over the years, I have had many moments of shame, embarrassment and struggle around keeping this house together with two small boys at the time, a limited salary as a single mom with a large daycare bill.

My intention was to somehow, someway take small steps to get things repaired so that I could sell it and move.  The list was long and exhaustive there were several major repairs and lots of minor things that needed to be done before the house could sell.  We are talking thousands of dollars.  On top of that the value of my home decreased when the housing market crashed in 2008, and it was just now starting to regain value over the last few years.

Yet, I felt that God was leading me to walk around the house and type up the long detailed repair list.

“But God, you know I don’t have the money to do this….it was painful to even walk through and list it all out.  He said, ”Do it.”  So I did.

Mysteriously, as if on cue, the VERY next day, my real estate agent (who had been quietly and persistently pestering me for the last year and I would blow him off) reached out once again …”Ms. Breeden, are you ready to talk about selling your home? I know it will sell.”

Instead of brushing him off like I have always done in the past because of fear, not having money to fix it, and because I didn’t think it would sell high enough for me to net a profit after the repairs, I listened to him.

This time I said “Yes.”  I surrendered my pride and sent him my long list.  I signed the paperwork.  Packed up and moved out. Two weeks later, the home was restored better than it was when I purchased it brand new.

Upon my first view of the home, when the repairs were completed, I wept.  I’m talking about boo-hoo weeping.  Why? Because it was unrecognizable. It was beautiful inside and out. I wept because of the prayers.  Because of the shame. Because of hiding out.

Within 48 hours of being on the market, the house was under contract.

As I type this today, it is now sold.  Now here is the clincher.  In going through the paperwork on the original purchase of the home to dig up some information for the pending sale, I noticed that I purchased the home on 5/11/05.  I almost fell out because the closing date on the sale of the home was scheduled for and has now occurred on 5/11/18!! Pause and think about this.  What are the odds of this happening??? How could the real estate and the attorney somehow manage to schedule my closing to sell the home on the EXACT same date that I brought it 13 years ago? Purchased 5/11/05. Sold 5/11/18. WHAT!?!

God’s timing is impeccable.  He is flawless in execution.  He KNOWS what he is doing!!!

If he did this for me, dear reader, he can do it for you!

I said all of that to say this.  No matter how badly I wanted to repair and move out of my home, last year, three years ago, five years ago —-

I wasn’t ready mentally or emotionally.

The timing wasn’t right.

The market wasn’t right.

The right people and connections for repairing it were not In place.

But then there came a DUE SEASON.  A certain time. The moment when KAIROS and CHRONOS time intersected.  If God did it for me, He most certainly can do it for you – if you believe and act accordingly!

For this to happen for you:

  • Must have an ear to hear that little nudge to act in faith – not overthinking it, doubting it or second guessing. What would have happened had I not written that list in spite of how foolish I felt typing it up?  I would still be sitting in that house right now.
  • Must be willing to take the leap of faith and act! When the window of opportunity that you have been praying for presents itself, you had better act! You may not get another chance for a very long time!  I had to move in haste without hesitation because I recognized it as God’s hand moving in my life.  I am now very glad that I did.
  • What is God nudging you to do, but you keep distracting yourself on purpose, watching Netflix, scrolling on social media, going on dates and dinners, being all caught up with this and that, running behind your kids, being all busy with stuff and activities, falling asleep, being too tired, etc.?

There is a time and season for everything. ….Your time could be now or on the way. Are you ready for what you are praying for? Reply back and let me know what faith step you are taking this week.

Remember: God makes everything (all of the pain, the bad stuff, the struggle and sorrow) beautiful in its time (Eccl. 3:1 and 3:11)

Get ready, Your time is coming!

Love,

TB

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