Try It Again.

You know, that little tug at your heart is still there. It hasn’t gone anywhere.  In spite of all that you have gone through, you still feel that gentle nudge to try it again.

Your “it” may be that business idea. Or that non-profit.  Writing that book.  Starting that blog. Joining a network marketing type of business.  Going back to school.  Starting that ministry.  Signing up to serve in a ministry or community service.

Or your “it” could be opening your heart to love again.

Whatever your “it” is, it is not too late and you can try again!  We tend to overthink and cause suffering for ourselves.

Also, we are eternally preoccupied with what “THEY” will think.  More often than not, we want it to be easy and really don’t want to actually do the WORK and put forth the effort and time it will take, either. Especially if we have tried before and we feel like we failed.

So we make excuses and stifle that little tug in our hearts.

We languish and suffer when we see other people taking the leap and doing the same thing we know we are to be doing.  We don’t understand why watching them makes us feel depressed. It is not “THEM”, it’s us.   When we are not really doing what we are supposed to be doing and when we see someone else doing the same thing, it stirs up insecurities.

So instead of looking and watching others, I encourage you to try it again.  This time with more wisdom and this time with greater faith.

Remember, it’s not over and it’s not too late!

Whatever mistake, shame, embarrassment from the past that you are struggling with, I encourage you to:

1) Receive God’s grace to fill in the gaps and insufficiencies;

2) Receive forgiveness of your mistakes;

3) Forgive yourself and stop ruminating about it;

4) Believe God for restoration and redemption of the years that have been lost (Joel 2:25) and lastly;

5) Try It Again!

What is it God is whispering for you do try again?

P.S. —- a little gift for you here – – the first three chapters of my book, Get out of that Dead-End Relationship NOW! After having ended a bad relationship, I too, had to pick up the pieces and live again. So can you!


Stop the Lies. Speak Your Truth

It’s the truth that sets us free. John 8:32.  I say it’s the truth we KNOW and DO that sets us free.  I’m calling all Queens who engaged and activated in their various callings and assignments. I’m calling the ones who know what they are called to do but they are still not doing in the way that they dreamed of and the way God told them because they still are worried about what “they” think and are still trying to figure out “How” to do it….I’m also calling out those may be still struggling to regain sense of identity and your own voice after being in a bad relationship for years….

Stop the lies and pretending. It’s time to rise and remember who you really are. There are many, many things coming down the pipeline as we are getting close to the final days of enrollment for the Esther Queendom Academy founded by my mentor Shannon Evette.

The reason why I’m doing this mass push is just for that One Queen.  You may be her.  You could be that one Game Changing Woman in this world that is hiding out in being too busy, wounded and stuck in overthought to invest in yourself.

Every time you hold back and hide out, you are withholding the answer to someone’s prayer.

You are the answer.

Rise Up.

Upcoming Events!

Sisterhood Soiree With Shannon Evette: Matters of the Heart / Healing the Heart of a Queen

Essential Oils of the Bible Class with Essential Oils Practitioner Angie Ceroli and Transformative Teaching by Shannon

Sunday 4/22/18 at 3:00 pm  Durham, NC

For those in the Raleigh Durham area of North Carolina, I am hosting a live event – an impromptu Sisterhood Soiree with Shannon Evette teaching live via Zoom on Matters of Heart: Healing the Heat of a Queen on This coming Sunday, 4/22/18 at 3PM EST.  I have an Essential Oils Teacher who will be presenting to us on the Biblical Oils of the Bible that Queen Esther used in her healing and beautification process as well as light refreshments and then a transformative teaching on heart issues by Shannon Evette all the way from California!!! This is absolute free and the first 15 ladies to register will receive a free beauty bag with essential oils from Shannon.  Click here to sign up today Location to be provided when you register!

Periscope Talks: The Making of a Queen: Protocols of the Palace.

Join me on Periscope this Queendom Journey discussion this week starting on Monday on @periscope for a series of transformative talks on the The Making of a Queen: The Protocols of the Palace.  Follow me on periscope for notifications when I go live!!  I will dive more into the Process, the Promises, the Positioning and the Posture of a Queen.  Download Periscope to your phone and follow me @getrealbehealed to catch me live.

Love & Money: Why Queens Need Both Webinar, Thursday 4/19/18

As women, we are MAGNETIC, we have the power to attract the right relationships, the right opportunities and the right resources. So, what happens when our BRILLIANCE is dulled by fear, a mindset of LACK or unworthiness? Join the Sacred Sisterhood’s “LOVE & MONEY: WHY QUEENS NEED BOTH” Master Class featuring special guest, 7-figure money mindset coach, Ashley Ann. Click here to register.  Ashley Ann keeps things very raw and real.  For mature women only.

Esther Queendom Academy closes 4/24/18!

I am so stinking excited to be in this academy.  I was one of the first year students last year and it was AMAZING.  So much rich, full teaching on ALL aspects of womanhood,  business, purpose, beautification, drawing close to God,  operating as a Queen and ruling in your personal domain, romantic relationships and dealing with a real King – a real Man of God as a spouse.  It is so much and I have never seen anything like it yet…. And if this sounds like something you need — click here.  I’d love to have you join me on the journey.

So many things to elevate, inform, heal and transform your life.  Just for you!

I hope to hear/see you soon.






Many special things coming up for this week.  Stay Tuned! #Queens #GetRealBeHealed #Sisterhood

What if Celibacy Could Raise Your “Coinage” – Live Call Tomorrow!


p.s. if you are a brother, pass it along to a sister who needs it.

What if your ability to receive MONEY and your capacity to receive LOVE were…somehow…CONNECTED?

What if the same feminine qualities that have the potential to bring you MAD success and an abundant flow of resources, could bring you an abundant flow of love, joy and heartfelt bliss?

Wouldn’t you want to know EVERYTHING you can about that??!! Guess what, sacred sister? It’s time for us to rise in our understanding in the two conversations every woman must face: LOVE and MONEY.

Our feminine design calls for love, we desire to be touched, held, cherished. Yet, we also crave safety, security and LEGACY. As women, we are MAGNETIC, we have the power to attract the right relationships, the right opportunities and the right resources.

So, what happens when our BRILLIANCE is dulled by fear, a mindset of LACK or unworthiness?

Our money goes from a FLOW to a trickle. We step a little further away from our rightful position as Queens, and a little more hidden from that King-level partner we desire.


Join the Sacred Sisterhood’s “LOVE & MONEY: WHY QUEENS NEED BOTH” Master Class at 8:00 am Pacific, 10:00 am Central & 11:00 am Eastern.

WARNING: This Sacred Sisterhood Circle will touch on very adult topics, if you’re sensitive to language this may not be the call for you.


Join us in a no-nonsense, heart-to-heart session that covers two major influences that affect our joy and fulfillment as women: LOVE and MONEY.

This class will feature a special guest, 7-figure money mindset coach and Instagram power player, Ashley Ann.

Ashley Ann has walked hundreds of entrepreneurs to six and seven figure businesses through the process of mindset transformation and money mastery. Prepare to be blown away by the provocative, leading edge ideas that this major Instagram influencer, mega money trainer and anointed business leader has to share with us tomorrow morning.

In tomorrow’s “LOVE & MONEY: Why QUEENS need BOTH” Master Class, you will discover how to…

  • Elevate above a competitive, “not-enough”, scarcity mindset to manifest money and WEALTH and tap into the spiritual laws of grace, intention and receptivity to co-create an abundant life with God.
  • Remove the barriers blocking the flow of romantic love and financial abundance.
  • Stop helplessly waiting and get prepared and positioned for the love that is calling with our soulmate and evolve into magnets for wealth as we discover the spiritual laws of prosperity and purpose.
  • Dispel common money misconceptions that keep many women in the cycle of lack and “not enough”
  • It’s time to BUILD your Queendom and welcome sacred love that anchors and accelerates your CALLING.

WARNING: This Sacred Sisterhood Circle will touch on very adult topics, if you’re sensitive to language this may not be the call for you.

We’re going to talk about how your SEX life is affecting your ability to attract WEALTH. Prepare your heart to receive on tomorrow as we tap into our King Maker and Money Maker Anointing!

Secure your complimentary space by CLICKING HERE.

Blessings and Love,