Are you tired of the anxious feeling in pit of stomach regarding your relationship and ready to have sustainable peace this year? Need further confirmation? How much longer do you intend to suffer? Check out this checklist of just a few of the signs you need to cut it from the book, Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl by Natalie Lue:
From Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl by Natalie Lue
The Relationship is conducted on their terms. If you attempt things your way, you are met with objections, stonewalling, going silent, disappearing acts, and open hostility.
There is an absence of love, care, trust and respect.
It feels like you have an addiction or compulsion towards this person and keep going back even though you consistently keep getting disappointed.
They have betrayed you and broken your trust.
If you have forgotten who you are, your values, boundaries, your needs, hobbies, purpose, family, friends and relationship with God.
You have broken up several times for the same reasons ,but you keep going back. They promised things would change but it never does.
You are the side chick because they are otherwise attached/married or have a girlfriend, OR; you used to be the girlfriend at some point, but now you are the side chick.
If any of this sounds familiar, you should consider signing up for The Closure Class, free webinar to receive tools and strategies on how to get out and stay out. Thursday, June 22nd 8PM EST.
Did you wake up this morning with him and that situation on your mind again? (And if you are a guy reading this, the same applies! or you can pass this along to someone you know who needs this)
I’ve been there. In weird, painful relationship situation that never quite seems to get right. I came to a place where I finally got tired of my own mess and denial.
I got tired of pretending and praying. I got tired of waiting and wondering why he won’t change.
And I finally took action. I ended it. Yes, there was struggle of about 5 or 6 months but once I cut it, I CUT IT!!!! (and wrote a book about it)
If you are always praying about your relationship but you are still secretly crying and anxious… Acting like all is well in front of friends and family. Suffering and smiling. Painting the perfect picture on Facebook and Instagram. Going to church and work and acting happy. But deep down you know you have been praying for years for him to change and nothing has changed. It hurts so bad. Feeling unappreciated and unwanted. Forever trying to get the relationship back to the early days when you felt connected only to be left feeling drained from trying. Feeling like you are always nagging and complaining, but nothing changes. Praying and seeking God for his healing or to change him so that you can finally have a real, authentic relationship. Your heart has been crying out for years to finally feel loved, cherished and understood. If this sounds like you, then you need to be in this class!!