FREE Year-End Bootcamp Webinar with Pastor Ron Pitts! #GetRealEnlarge

Blessings & Peace to You!

We only have a few weeks left in 2018.

In don’t’ know about you but A LOT has happened in 2018.  Some good and some not so good..,

Yet, here we are on the cusp of a brand new year.  Saying the same old stuff about how things are going to change and how you will be different year after year gets very, very old after you have endured many New Year’s Eves in your life is still pretty much the same.

Trust me, I know.

Practically speaking, the only REAL way to make any type of significant shifts, progress and forward momentum into a new year is to truly Get Real – real with yourself (the painful ugly stuff) and with God (come clean with Him) then Be Healed (take the time to do it) and then and only then can we truly expand and #Enlarge to become the men and women we are destined to be.

This is true freedom and real growth.

Often we want to pretend, fake, front, take shortcuts, be lazy, procrastinate, pretend we don’t know, we are too tired, we don’t have support, nobody likes us, nobody really cares, we don’t have the time, it is easier to watch TV, go out to eat, hang out, get entangled in dead-end relationships, be on social media ANYTHING but feeling the pain of healing.

So unless we hit rock bottom or are very intentional, we stay the same.

But this doesn’t have to be you!  I’ve partnered with a very powerful and anointed man of God, Pastor Ron Pitts out of Birmingham, AL to provide a safe space for you to DETOX from 2018 and prepare your soul, heart, and spirit to ENLARGE for what God has in store for you in 2019.

This is a FREE boot camp webinar designed to help you clear out 2018 and walk with confidence and clarity when 2019 comes in.  There may just be ONE key nugget, revelation, insight, or healing word that will create all the momentum you need heading into 2019 to make the shift!

The webinar will be held Wednesday, 12/19/18 at 7pm CST / 8 pm EST.  Two blessed and highly favored individuals who stay on the duration of the webinar will receive FREE signed copies of either my book A Woman’s Journey Home or Pastor Ron’s Book How to Respond When God Says No!


Don’t miss this powerful time of impartation, activation, detoxing and prayer!


In Him,


One more New Year Blog Post in Your Overflowing Inbox. Read at Your Own Risk.

Haha. I got you to open it didn’t I? LOL.

Anyhoo, I’m simply reaching out to say HAPPY NEW YEAR.  I have been very deliberate and intentional to say low and off the grid in terms of social media the last couple of weeks of December so that I too, could come home and come back to God away from the distractions of other people’s voices, opinions, pics, etc.  So I am reaching out today to remind you that:

  • God will still love you even if you don’t complete all of your goals, tasks, initiatives, assignments, income goals, financial goals, business ideas, ministry start-up, entrepreneurial endeavors, strategies, groups, marketing, resolutions, intentions, book writing, classes, promises, diets, fitness, relationship, marital status, parenting things you have already written, cried, prayed, journaled, fasted and been prophesied too about.
  • Since he loves you regardless, remember to move at the pace of grace and not the frenzy, fret, and fever of your flesh, aka your ego or default tendencies when you go into overdrive trying to get everything done.

What does this mean practically for you today? It means that to Come Up Higher in 2018, you must first come home to yourself and come home to God.  It means that you are so rooted, grounded, fixed and founded and secure in who you are in Him, that you don’t have to operate trying to do so much so fast and so hard in your own energy.

It means that yes – you will definitely work hard, but there will be a grace on it.

It means that yes, you will bring things thru to completion, but it will be with patience and consistency, little by little, bit by bit, not all in some big wild rush to burn you out before February.

More to come but in the meantime, remember – before you run wildly doing a bunch of stuff, make sure that you have had your appointment with God and yourself.  Make sure you Come Home before you attempt to Come Up Higher in 2018.



Before You Go Hard With Your Hustle in 2016 Remember These Two Words….


Yes! I got my special 2016 planner already pre-filled, pre-planned & pre-populated!

Yes! I signed up for my coaching, this class, that workshop, that seminar, etc.!

Yes! I am on a __ day ____ of fast with my church! (you fill in the blanks.)

Hold up. wait a Minute!

All of these things are necessary if you plan on accomplishing anything.   I’m doing the same things too.  Far from being perfect, however, I will struggle and tweak as I go along.

For that reason over the years, I have learned TWO VERY IMPORTANT WORDS as we all stand at the Starting Line of 2016….



That’s right BABY STEPS! If you get all gung-ho, and busy too fast, too quick and too much you will 1) quickly tucker out, fall apart in overwhelm and burnout or 2) get sidetracked and distracted with the tyranny of the urgent.

To avoid falling into these traps, remember who your source is – Christ! We are reminded in Acts 17:28 that in Him we live, in Him we move and in Him we have all of our being. In John 15:5, Christ Himself clearly tells us that without Him we can do nothing – zilch – nada. Well, you may say I have done quite a bit in my life before Christ and I know I can make stuff happen now. Yes, you can in your own strength and in your own power, but will the reason and the motivations withstand the test of eternal, kingdom significance and value?

There is nothing that you can do of any eternal significance for Christ apart from Christ. Everything else you do on your own and in your personal power without Him will not matter beyond your life on earth.

So don’t rely on your own strength at the starting gate of 2016 – rely on His Strength if you expect to fulfill a God-given vision and mandate. Relying upon Him requires that you take BABY STEPS until you are able to move at a quicker pace. Until you got the hang of that new thought pattern, habit, routine, new business idea, writing, whatever it may be.

Two scriptures that I always lean on to help me is Philippians 1:6 and Mark 7:37 which tells us to be confident that He who begun a good work in you will complete it and that He does all things well. Remember He (NOT YOU) began the good work and He (NOT YOU) is the one who will do all things well as you cooperate with Him taking steps towards implementing His Vision for 2016.

So the key, two most important words for this year is Baby Steps. Small consistent steps over time, in order and in His strength will carry you much further and enable you to maintain and sustain over the long haul as you begin this year. You will look back over the series of baby steps that you took and realize that yes indeed, you have truly covered much ground and it was all because you didn’t try too hard, too fast and too quick but because you took your time and leaned in Christ. In Psalm 37:23 we read that it is the STEPS of a good man or woman that are ordered and delighted in by God (not wild leaps, jumps and bounds into overwhelm and burnout) but the step-by-step process that strengthens you for the capacity to handle the full manifestation of the Vision.

So take a pause and quietly remember the following before rushing in all quick to “Go Hard” with your hustle:

1) Take Baby Steps

2) He Begun the Work in You

3) He will Complete the Work in You; and,

4) He Does ALL things Well!

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